"How Beautiful Upon the Mountains are the Feet of Those that Publish Peace"

What does a Mission President's wife do? That is a good question! And one I have been asked many times. The interesting thing about being a Mission President's wife is that there are no set guidelines about what we are supposed to do. In most missions today, the President's wife takes responsibility for all of the health issues, and that is a big one! I had no idea the amount of ingrown toenails, sore throats, infections, parasites, constipation and diarrhea that missionaries get! Because of this, one of the most important things I do is to take telephone calls from missionaries who are having problems with their health. I give them medical advice, approve visits to the doctor and other tests, and approve the medication they are taking. I have to keep a record of each missionary's health on a site called Missionary Medical.

                                 Room check in Motupe. This city has a famous landmark, the

                                 Cross of Motupe. They say it heals people . . .                                                                      


It is amazing how being a mother of several children prepares a Mission president's wife to do this. Between me and my five children, we have experienced almost everything. When it gets to a point where I have exhausted very resource and the missionary is still not well, I have an Area Medical Adviser that I can consult with in Lima. These missionaries are experienced doctors from the United States and they are fabulous! I would not have survived without them. I have also learned  a lot through experience. I have learned about stomach infections, parasites, worms, fleas, constipation and many other fun and interesting things. It is amazing how much easier it is now that I have had almost two years experience. It still can be very stressful at times knowing that I am responsible for the health of missionaries and their lives when they are really sick. I have felt the Lord's guidance on many occasions and I know that he cares about the well being of each of His servants.


                                             Saying good bye to a wonderful missionary!

Another large responsibility I have is overseeing the Companionship Language Program. Every missionary in the world who does not speak English has been asked to learn it in the mission field. These missionaries have the help of the North American Elders - it is actually required. I interview each Latin missionary about their progress in English every three months. I give them encouragement and incentives to help them along the way. I give them a monthly writing and speaking assignment and they report their progress to me each week through an email. A few months ago only a few missionaries were really making any effort to study English in our mission and now almost every Latin Elder is making an effort. It has been amazing to see the culture in our mission change from one of not studying English to studying English.


                                                      Ward Cultural Dance Activity

I also spend a lot of time studying the scriptures and the Spanish language, when I have time, and writing talks and presentations. Writing a talk in Spanish takes a lot more time than it does in English, but it has gotten easier. We give a lot of talks! Especially in Stake Conferences. Mark and I do a lot of things together like attending district meetings, inspecting rooms, and holding the many meetings that are required. When we have leadership council each month, I am responsible for training the Hermana Sister Leaders in our Mission. It is interesting to me that I am training sister missionaries when I never served a mission, but I have found my experience as a leader has prepared me well to train them how to be effective leaders. I have also learned a lot through my study of Preach my Gospel and the Missionary Handbook. I also go work and teach with sister missionaries occasionally.



                                               Mark and I at a Viewpoint overlooking the
                                                                 Pyramids of Tucume.

The other thing I do is make a lot of cookies. We just finished interviewing all 150 missionaries the beginning of April, so I made over 300 cookies. It is a lot of work, but it is something the missionaries really look forward to. I am still a homemaker too! It is important to keep my husband well fed and happy. When I have extra time, it makes me very happy to serve my husband by making his favorite foods and dishes. I am also a sounding board for my husband when he is making changes. We plan and schedule everything together including multi-zone conferences, interviews, trips, and other meetings. Pretty much I do what my husband  asks me to do. Each mission is different and each wife is different. Some have more health problems and some have a lot of children with them in the mission field, so what they are able to do is much different than what I can do. It is really an individual thing.

Of course, I also make meals when misionaries come and go with the help of Edna and I train pensionistas, which is a lot of work. We train them every six months. The things I do are so varied. I like that every day and every week is different. And there is always plenty to do. I like, also, that it gets better and more fun every week. I am assuming that I will be able to just sail smoothly through and enjoy the last year!


                   
                               Mark had the privilege of baptizing a 22 year old girl, Stephanie,
                                    who looks much younger than that. She even has a baby!

When we hold interviews, I interview every missionary in the mission, just like my husband does. There are many wives who are not in a position to do this, but my situation allows me to do it. It is so much work, but always a choice, rewarding experience. We just finished interviewing all of our missionaries the beginning of April and they say the most amazing things. This time I recorded all of their words of wisdom so that I can remember them. A few of my favorite quotes are:

"Whenever things are tough and I feel down, I always find the comfort I need in the scriptures."

"If we are humble, obedient and doing the Lord's will, He can make us into what he wants us to become."

"I have always remembered the multi-zone conference when you taught us to search the scriptures diligently and since then I have always done it."

"I feel that when we watch and listen to General Conference, it's like we are up in the heavens, but then when it ends, we have to come back down to earth and to reality." (I love this; my feelings exactly. I am always sad when Conference is over.)

"I came to this mission to eat Hermana Williams cookies!"

"I love the message in the monthly newsletter. It always helps me so much."

Mark and I take turns writing a message each month. I don't think I have ever heard one other missionary comment about it. That one comment made it all worth it! If I know it is helping one missionary, then I can keep doing it! I have each of the Latin missionaries read a scripture to me in English. When I handed my scriptures to this same Elder, he began to thumb through them and he said, "Wow, I'm holding Hermana Williams scriptures!" They are so cute!

We have one small missionary (in size) who has a disability. He limps a little when he walks. I always worry about him and wonder how he is able to keep up and walk 5-6 miles a day. In his interview, I simply asked him, "Is missionary work hard for you?" His answer: "It's not easy, but it's not impossible." I thought his words were profound and I understood why he has been able to do this. I felt strengthened by his attitude. If we could all remember this, that when things are tough, nothing is impossible with the help of our Savior Jesus Christ. "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." Philippians 4:13. I have thought about and pondered this scripture more than any other in the mission field. I even memorized it in Spanish: "Todo lo puedo en Cristo que me fortalece." It has given me so much comfort and encouragement. It is something we always need to remember.

A quote that has really helped me is by Neal A. Maxwell. He said, "The dues of discipleship are high indeed, and how much we can take so often determines how much we then can give." I put this quote on my wall and read it and pondered it almost every day the first year of my mission. It helped me to keep going at times when I was not sure that I could.


                                   Our "garden" with new table and chairs. We had a garden
                                      breakfast this weekend. It was so nice. The weather is
                                                much better and really nice right now.

                       

A little update on our house: it is great. We love it! All the air conditioning is fixed. All the repairs are done. It seems that other little things keep needing attention. About two weeks ago, they started constructing a house right across the street from us. It has been interesting to see this process, but a little inconvenient for us. They came and dumped 5 huge piles of rock for the cement and it is right in front of our driveway. It is very difficult getting our large car out of the garage. We are hoping the rock will be gone in a week or two when they start doing the cement work. It is a slow process and they work so hard! We love our little yard and we have planted lots of flowers that have been blooming. We have had (actually Mark) a few accidents with the weed wacker. Some beautiful orange flowers were hacked down and one of my rose bushes!

                                                          I "still" love my husband!!

                                                                Rocks! Enough said!

They have been making these forms for the cement for a

week now, all by hand. A very slow process.

My sister Deb and my brother-in-law Troy were able to come visit us for a few days. It was really fun having them here. They loved our house and said it was like a resort! We talked a lot, visited the pyramids and had a picnic at the beach. They attended a Stake Conference with us also. They enjoyed seeing the Buhos (owls) in our neighborhood. Troy especially seemed to enjoy this. Everywhere we went, he found Buho souvenirs, so now I have a small collection of them! Deb kept busy worrying about all the stray dogs. She had to check and make sure they were healthy and not starving. We were just relieved there were not many cats or she really would have had a nervous breakdown! We taught them to play Brian and Megan's card game, Nine Hole, and had to stay up until 1:00 am one night so that Troy could keep trying to win. He finally did the very last round we played the night before they left. It was a relief for all of us. It was really fun to have them here and we were sad when they left. If anyone else would like to come, they gave us great reviews on the food and the accommodations!

                                                                                                            Out to eat at the preppy place!

 

                             
                                                        Fun day at the beach!

"The Comfort of Jesus"

                                               Deb is a Sudoku Champion. We got her a
                                          wooden Sudoku game for her birthday and she
                                                         got to work on it right away.

Since posting my last blog, we have learned that the owls in our neighborhood are not baby owls, even though they are very small. They are full grown and are called "Burrowing Owls." That is why they hung our in the field behind our house in holes they dug under the sidewalk rather than being in nests or trees. It has been interesting to watch them. They have moved on to bigger and better things. We see them around the neighborhood but not in the field anymore. They really like some bags of rock that have been in the park for several weeks now.




                                           View from our apartment where we used to live.

                                                 View from the front of our house.

We went on a trip to Jaen to do interviews, visit rooms and visit a ward there. Our trip to Jaen was one of the most fun I can remember in a while. I have finally lost my fear of speaking Spanish and am communicating a lot better, so I feel like I can interact and be part of the conversation. Before, I was like a little fly on the wall, just listening and observing, but not really a part of anything. It was hard sometimes and not very fun at all. But it is much better now. We decided to take all the missionaries in the Jaen Zone out to eat at a burger/ice cream place and they were so excited! It is called Sabor y Miel (Flavor and Honey) and is our favorite place to eat in Jaen. Elder Pacherres told me on the way there, that all of the missionaries had been extremely happy and excited all day because they knew they got to eat out together that night. It takes so little to make these missionaries happy. They sacrifice so much all the time. It is fun to do these little things for them.



                                                   Beautiful scenes on the trip to Jaen.

                                                        Los Assistentes! We love them!

         A fun dinner in Jaen with the Zone.

                                                                               The view from a missionary's room in Jaen.
                                   


I had the most beautiful experience teaching with two Hermana Leaders the other night. We went to visit a family that has been through a tragedy and has suffered much. We taught three women of three generations; a daughter of 25 years, a mother and a grandmother. The mother's husband was murdered 7 months ago. She lost her husband and her daughter lost her Father. It has been extremely painful for them. They have struggled with feelings of anger and hate and have had to learn to forgive. What a wonderful experience to talk about the plan of salvation with them and to feel the spirit of hope that has come into their lives because of the gospel of Jesus Christ. I was able to share my feelings about my marriage and the temple. I told them that my husband and I know that our marriage is for eternity and that it is the most important thing to us. I told them of the peace I feel in the temple and the love I feel for my husband every time I go there. When I finished they all said, "How beautiful!"

This experience made me think of the words of Abinadi when he said: "And O how beautiful upon the mountains were their (the prophets') feet!

"And again, how beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of those that are still publishing peace.

"And again, how beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of those who shall hereafter publish peace, yea, from this time henceforth and forever!

"And behold, I say unto you, this is not all. For O how beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him that bringeth peace, yea, even the Lord, who has redeemed his people; yea, him who has granted salvation unto his people:" (Mosiah 15:15-18)

This gospel is a message of peace. I bore my testimony to these sweet sisters that the gospel is true and that every blessing is possible because Jesus Christ suffered and died for us. I assured them that He knows their pain and that He will be there to succor them. If only every person on the earth knew this, then everyone could have this peace "which passeth understanding." This is the best thing that a Mission President's wife has the privilege to do: To be a missionary and a representative of Jesus Christ and bear testimony of Him.

On the Move Again!

After 23 moves, we did it again! We moved into our new house! I feel like we need t-shirts that say, "I survived a move in Peru!" The first huge obstacle was that the elevator up to our seventh story apartment was broken. So everything and every person had to go up and down seven flights of stairs, including a piano. There were no moving vans or U-hauls. When it rained they had to stop moving because there was no protection for our furniture. There were very few boxes; mostly garbage bags. All our clothing was stuffed in boxes and garbage bags. There was only shrink wrap to protect the furniture. It was all quite an adventure. Despite all of that, the people who helped us move were kind and helpful and willing to do whatever we asked.

The front of our house. Its hard to see in the light,

but there is a wood door, some gray stone and

a wood garage door. The windows up top are

from our bedroom.

These are the cute garbage collector ladies in our

neighborhood. They push the cart around together

and pick up our garbage three times a week. They 

were so proud of the treasures they find like a shirt or a

 pair of pants or recycling materials. "Gifts" they said.

This is a park being developed in our neighborhood.

We hope it is finished before we leave.There are 3

or four trees and some patches of grass.

This is the faithful groundskeeper. He is always 

working. One day Mark asked him how he liked

taking care of the park that was not. He laughed

so hard! Mark always makes people happy.

We are very happy to be in our house. It is a quiet and peaceful place; no noise or busy traffic. And we have so much more space. I didn't realize how cramped we were in our apartment until we moved into this house. We have large closets now for our clothes, in fact we each have our own. We have much more cupboard space in the kitchen. We have a small courtyard with grass and a patio and we have a balcony outside our second story bedroom! The other night we sat on our balcony and watched the most amazing clouds. They were moving fast for clouds. They really were beautiful in the blue sky. Some of them were huge! They looked like giant ships gliding slowly through blue water. It made me feel more at home to know that some things are the same in Peru, like clouds, dirt and wind.

                                           Stairs and Living Room

Living Room and Dining Room. That is the

garage door in the background. The wall is

all windows to the outside.

It is the middle of summer and miserably hot, and we are without air conditioning. After they got all the new air conditioning units installed in our house, they realized that there was not enough electrical power to support them. And they were right. It has been quite a trying experience for two over- indulged spoiled Americans. For example, we cannot run the air conditioning and the washer and dryer at the same time. We cannot run the air conditioning and use the oven. I cannot use the oven and do laundry at the same time. It has been quite a juggling act to get everything done that we need to and still remain halfway comfortable. We only have air conditioning in two rooms, our bedroom and the office. I call those two rooms the cool zones! They are an oasis for us.

Mark's new office; much bigger and carpeted!

                                                          Our bedroom. A cool spot.

We have had people here at our house working for three weeks now to get this all figured out. I am sure they are thinking we are pretty demanding and needy Americans and that we expect to live in great luxury. I love air conditioning and in Chiclayo, in the summer it can be miserable! It has been really good for us to remember that this is how the missionaries live all the time. I don't know how they ever cool off. They have no air conditioning in their apartments and none in any of the homes they visit. A lot of the churches and most public buildings do not have it either.

Our cute kitchen. I love the red!

In order to get us the power we need the electric company had to hook up a new connection to the power line. The greatest problem was to find it! One day two men came with a sledge hammer and just starting making holes and digging. First they put a big hole in the road in front of our house, but then decided that the line was not there. So next, they dug out a huge hole through the sidewalk. They had to dig down six feet in order to connect to the line. They worked out in the hot sun for many hours for two days, but finally they found it. It was a reason to celebrate! Our sidewalk will never look the same again, but we will be nice and cool in our house!

We found a man under our sidewalk!

We have a very small yard now, so we have a gardener. When they told us he would be coming three times a week, we were astounded. Our yard is about 40 feet by 20 feet and it is just a little grass with three tiny trees! The first day the gardener came, we left to go inspect rooms. When we returned two hours later, I expected the grass to be neatly trimmed and that the yard would be perfect. There had been a few weeds and the grass was long. We were surprised to see that after two hours of work, it did not look any different! The gardener did this for three days in a row. I really am not sure what he did! Mark and I went out and worked in the yard for thirty minutes to pull the weeds and trim some grass. The only tools we had were scissors! It was very stressful and crazy trying to do the yard with scissors, but we do not have any other garden tools. Our gardener uses clippers to cut our grass which are not much better. Where is Tucker when you need him! He could have had it done it in five minutes!




                                              Our huge yard/courtyard/carport/garage. We
                                               have a little patio to the left. The cement is
                                               for our cars.

               
                                                  Guest Room  and underneath the Den.

We have an empty lot on the right of our house, a house on the left of our house and an empty lot behind our house. The houses in Peru are built right next to each other, even in the nicest
neighborhood in Chiclayo. So we share a wall with our neighbors on the left. It is interesting. We have a park. There are a few patches of grass on one side and a few trees, but that is it. It is not finished. But it is quiet and we have space! My favorite part of our neighborhood is the lot behind our house because there are four baby owls that live there! They are so adorable. We noticed them the first morning we walked by there and now we look for them every time we walk. Some of them have favorite spots where they love to perch.


                                            The baby owls on one of their favorite perches.

Some days we only see one or two, but the lucky days are when all four of them are hanging out together. I can see them from the window of our office, because it is at the back of our house. So I just watch them sometimes with my binoculars. Yesterday, all four of them were there and I realized that they have two nests back there. They are in holes under the sidewalk! I saw two of them resting there and the other two were close by. It has been so fun to watch them learn how to fly and go further distances. I don't know how to explain how cute they are! When we get a little closer we can see their cute little faces looking at us and they turn their heads all the way around the cute way that owls do that!

Our baby owl friends. They really blend in with

the environment. In the background is the back of our house.

This is the Local Bird Preserve right by the gate of our "Gated"

Community: They are vultures eating garbage!

One day after getting semi-settled in our house, we had Multi-Zone Conference. We literally had one day to prepare, but like always, we had a lot of help, from the office elders and from above. We felt the need to emphasize the study of Preach my Gospel every day. It is the key to missionary work. I have fallen in love with that book. It has helped me so much to understand how missionary work is carried out. I did not have the opportunity to serve a proselyting mission, so this has been on the job training for me. Preach my Gospel has been a great blessing to me and I have gained a strong testimony that it is a very inspired book. It was written by prophets of God, just like the scriptures. I believe that it may be the second most correct book on earth!


                                           Zone Conference March 18-19, 2016

"Tengo un testimonio de Predicad mi Evangelio."

We also focused on the power of the Book of Mormon in conversion. There would be no missionary work without this miraculous book. The world is full of false teachings and doctrines, as Nephi prophesied there would be (2 Ne. 28:7-9). The Book of Mormon teaches us the truth. I have learned more powerfully, on this mission, the importance of the Doctrine of Christ. There is no other book of scripture, or otherwise, that states the Doctrine of Christ so clearly and so powerfully as the Book of Mormon does. It leaves no question about the way to come unto Christ. This is what missionaries do. We invite people to come unto Christ through faith, repentance, baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost. This is the way that the Lord has determined will lead us to Him and the Book of Mormon leaves us no doubt that there is no other way.

My favorite passage about this doctrine is in the Book of Mormon, 3 Nephi 11:31-40. This passage is incredibly powerful and very sobering.

               "Behold, verily, verily, I say unto you, I will declare unto you my doctrine.

                "And this is my doctrine, and it is the doctrine which the Father hath given unto me . . .

                "And whoso believeth in me, and is baptized, the same shall be saved; and they are they                        who shall inherit the kingdom of God.

                "Verily, verily, I say unto you, that this is my doctrine, and I bear record of it from the                          Father;

                "And again I say unto you, ye must repent and, and become as a little child, and be                                baptized in my name, or ye can in nowise receive these things.

                "And again I say unto you, ye must repent, and be baptized in my name, and become as a                    little child, or ye can in nowise inherit the kingdom of God.

                "Verily, verily, I say unto you, that this is my doctrine, and whoso buildeth upon this                            buildeth upon my rock, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against them.

                "And whoso shall declare more or less than this, and establish it for my doctrine, the same                    cometh of evil, and is not built upon my rock . . .and the gates of hell stand open to receive                  such . . ."

Did the Lord not get across His point?! How do men manage to come up with so many other ideas and false teachings? How have they been so blinded? The Book of Mormon teaches us the truth! We need not be confused or blinded by the craftiness of men.


                                           "Battleship" at Zone Conference.

                                           There is no missionary work without these amaz-
                                            ing missionaries!

Last Saturday we had the opportunity to attend the baptism of a cute little grandma named Lucretia who was in a wheelchair and could not even walk. She was a tiny little lady with long dark hair. I would have never known she was a grandma. Both of the Elders who taught her had to carry her into the font and baptize her together. Her testimony was so simple and sweet. and her three granchildren were also there. After the program, I had the opportunity to meet them. They were so proud of their grandma. They said, "This is our Abuelita!" (Little Grandma) I was touched that they were willing to come to a meeting they did not understand, to support their "Abuelita."

                                           Goodbye to Hermana Valdebenito of Chile

We have been on our mission for 20 months now! It is so amazing! When missionaries tell me they have been out for 20 or more months, I automatically know they are very experienced and seasoned missionaries. So I feel that Mark and I are pretty experienced and seasoned missionaries. We do feel much more comfortable and confident in what we are doing. It is a great feeling. We have come a long way. Meetings are much easier to plan and it takes much less time to prepare. I used to spend hours preparing to train the Hermana Leaders. And speaking in Spanish is much easier. We still have our moments when we are frustrated with our inability to express ourselves, but know that the Lord has blessed us with the gift of tongues and that we have been able to get our message across despite our weaknesses.

                                                     Saying goodbye to Hermana Guillen
                                                      from Colombia. A faithful leader.

 In D&C 130:19 it says: "And if a person gains more knowledge and intelligence in this life through his diligence and obedience than another, he will have so much the advantage in the world to come." I love the fact that we gain the most knowledge through obedience and diligence. After 20 months in the mission field, I have gained a much greater testimony of these principles because I can see now how I have grown and all that I have learned. This mission has not been easy for me and I have struggled many times with many things, but I have tried to be diligent and obedient. I have tried to study the scriptures every day just like the missionaries do and I have studied Preach my Gospel and the Spanish language every day. It has been extremely difficult and sometimes I have even done things begrudgingly.


                                                   At Pimentel Beach with the new arrivals.

Hungry new missionaries. Last break-

fast in the "old" Mission Home.

Thank goodness that the Lord is so merciful and that "the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he has chosen." (1 Ne. 1:20) He takes us and uses us with all our weaknesses and our shortcomings. In the beginning, I studied Preach my Gospel because I was supposed to, but now I have a firm testimony that it is a book written through revelation by prophets of God. My knowledge of the gospel, the scriptures and the Doctrine of Christ have grown through studying this inspired book. In the mission, my testimony has grown more than I ever could have imagined. My knowledge and understanding of missionary work has grown and of how the church operates. I am grateful for all these experiences, good and bad, that have contributed to my growth. If we can just hold on when things get rough, and have faith in the Father's plan for our life, then we will know, "that ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith." (Ether 12:6) I see now that I can be a much greater instrument in the mission, even than I was in the beginning, because of what I have learned and what I have experienced.

Saying goodbye to Cutter. El Gringito!

Treasures from Peru!